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Saturday, 12 May 2012

love marriage and arranged marriage

love marriage and arranged marriage
love marriage and arranged marriage

Love Marriage Or Arrange Marriage
Now a days every one think that either he or she go for Love marriage or arrange marriage. Actually this is a very sensitive topic, some people want to do love marriage because they think that love marriage is more better than to do arrange marriage. Their point of view is this, that they think before living together in their whole life they should know each other & also meet each other so they come to know about their likes, dislikes & other habits which can’t be possible in arrange marriages in our society. You know we live in Pakistan which is quite a conservative country & where people don’t like that girl & boy meet before marriage, but now trend change even in arrange marriages girl & boy meet with each other, talk every day & this also helps to understand each other but I think the instinct of do love marriage is not full fill by this also.
Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage is become a very important question for everyone, some have the opinion that arrange marriages are more better because in love marriages usually in our society & culture, family don’t support mostly & also do not interfere in the issues of couple.People say that love marriages mostly get failed because  ego problems comes & because of this they do fight.Like before marriage if one from them come,if other one is angry but after marriage you could only think about that & the reason is Ego problem…..
But I say  whether you do love marriage or arrange marriage, if you have understanding & you trust on your life partner than you can face every problem. So if you intend to do love marriage or arrange marriage, believe me just trust on your life partner your life will be beautiful as like you think it could be. Love marriages also have many benefits, main is that you know each other very well  so couple can adjust very fast for each other. According to a research who do marriage by their Parents opinion Or Match Maker tend to feel more love for each other & it grows & grows as time grows. Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage, couple must have a good compatibility rate among them & that requires a  chemistry!!!!

Author
Jia Ahmad

beautiful girl

beautiful girl
DEFINITION OF A BEAUTIFUL GIRL
The definition of a beautiful girl is that give pleasure when any one see her,or hear  her or u feel good  to think about her,you feel good to have around this is best definition of a beautiful girl. It is a common saying that beauty in heart also counts a lot equally. If a girl looks beautiful &  she is also beautiful from her heart that called a perfect beauty. You also commonly hear that beauty in looks not important but beauty in eyes matters a lot & if a girl have beauty in her eyes that’s the definition of a beautiful girl. But in my opinion the girl who is confident than she is beautiful. I meant to say every girl who look confident than we can say that she totally describe a definition of a beautiful girl.
The definition of a beautiful is completely describe that lady who is kind, caring and whom you can trust. Your heart fills with sadness when she gone thats also truly describe a beautiful girl. You feel good when she is around you, who makes your day bright.A girl who is conscious about her self respect,this quality also makes her beautiful.Personally what I think if you are beautiful from your heart than it will reflects from your eyes & if does than believe me You Are Beautiful!!!!
The definition of beautiful girl not only means that she is beautiful from outside,it means that she must possess good sense of humor having a good smile that just brighten your day also.Some people describe a beautiful girl who has beautiful eyes having fair complexion, attractive personality is also count as the additional bonus & should know about the social values & ethics. Every man wants her life partner must be beautiful,who is gorgeous, intelligent & having good character.There are two kinds of beauty we usually see in the girl:
Outside beauty / Physical beauty
Inner beauty / Emotional Beauty
The physical beauty is that she looks beautiful from outside,means she is elegant,pretty,having awesome attractive personality is called outside beauty.The girl who is caring,humble,having low tempered comes in the category of Emotional beauty.All men when seeks their life partner they want a beautiful girl but remember the girl who have good heart will become a good wife & if she is a good wife than your life will be good.They should be loyal & dedicated.Beauty is not from outside,its reflects from inside!!!
Author
Jia Ahmad

re marriage

re marriage
INCREASING RATE OF DIVORCE & REMARRIAGES
Actually a marriage starts always from happiness.Couple feeling that they are falling in love with each other & every one say that early marriage life is beautiful.At that time both feeling that they are the perfect match for each other because they don’t know much about their habits and  than this early married life replaced by arguments & fights & than they come to know that they cant live under one roof that leads to Divorce & remarriage.The increasing rate of divorce & remarriages in Pakistan is considered a shame because in the past few decades this word is un heard in pakistani Society. basically pakistan is conservative country even if the woman is unhappy not think about divorce because she don’t want that this label attach with her name & personality.Mostly women do compromises due to many reasons e.g financial burden,social pressure & her family not supporting her.She prefer to live a unhappy married life rather to divorced.
So another most important factor in increasing rate of divorce & remarriages is financial independence of women,intolerant attitude.Basically Pakistan is a male dominating society & want their wives to stay at home,look after their children & parents & leave their careers & professional life.Sometimes this situation worse & play a vital role in increasing rate of divorce & remarriages.In my view Marriage is not an important task,commitment is very important thing. Lack of privacy is also the cause of Increasing rate of divorce especially it happens in joint system which cause problems between the couple & leads to divorce.Sometimes divorce have bad impact on your life,your health suffers a lot.Mutual tolerance & compromise can decrease the rate of divorce.
In Pakistan the feeling of superiority also the main cause of divorce & remarriages. There is problem in Asian males that they don’t like female dominance, this can also lead to divorce. We can down the rate of divorce, all causes of divorce should be looked in to & corrected, and that’s the only key to have successful married life. We should not complain about our life partner, we should change ourselves for them this is love & commitment.So just renew your love by discussing your problems & issues with your life partner, Not Divorce but getting remarried is the right Solution!!!!!

Author:
Jia Ahmad

second marriage

second marriage


NEED OF SECOND MARRIAGE

The act of man having more than one wife is called Polygamy. The need of second marriage arises If a married man is childless with his first wife, family members might recommend to marry a second wife.As you know that we are Muslims  & our religion is Islam. Islam gives permission to man that he can carry more than one wife,but if he is able/eligible to take second wife physically and financially & for man he should treat  his both wives in equal ways. You hear mostly that is necessary to take permission from first wife to do second marriage but according to some scholars it is not necessary to take permission from the first wife to do second marriage .    a husband should treat his with justice & show respect.
The need of second marriage arises in our society due to many reason,first of all & the very important reason is that husband is involved in some one else that also ends in second marriage.The need of second marriages arises in our society if you have no children from your first wife or you have only girls.so in this situation the family of husband pressurize him to do second marriage.Some peoples have not fully healed from first marriage & they jump to second marriage very quickly like a fry pan is jumped into fire.A common saying is that a man cant forgets his first love & first wife.Because of this reason the second marriage fail.
The need of second marriage arises mostly in our society due to husband family because they are the persons who play vital role in second marriage. Many people do second marriage because they are forced into it. The need of second marriage arises when there are some financial pressures,social pressures & also emotional pressures which leads second marriage. A common saying is that second marriage is more difficult than a first one.Sometimes if a husband is fall in love with other lady than that lady demands mostly to give divorce to first wife,&  that’s how her life destroyed even their children suffer a lot by this act.What you think in our society that divorced woman can live easily. Your answer must be in negative because she will suffer & if she have children they are the main victom of this act.So just think about your children before you want to do second marriage.Dnt throw your blood in the world of social animals.
Author:
Jia Ahmad

arabic marriage

arabic marriage
Marriages website for Arabs
Arabic Marriages
In Arabic world Arabian women were not allowed to meet males in their society, but, Arabian women can meet their grooms-to- be in the presence of their parents.  Arabic Marriages have been  changed in past 100 years,Their trends which were in past 100 years are different as compared to today.Arabic Marriages have now similar with today's marriages but they are very unique from one region to another even with in same country.The Arab marriages usually starts with the meeting of couple’s families & when they approve the couple.Arrange marriages are common in arab world.After that   Reading of Fatiha ( Engagement Celebration) event come hosted by Bride’s family in which Groom formally ask for the bride’s hand in marriage from her father or the eldest man in the family or in relative.After the father approval,the families read Surat Fatiha & drink sharbat prepared from flowers or fruit.Engagement in the Arab world is like wedding parties in which couple wear dress which they like & exchange rings.
 After that weddings dates are decided & functions starts from Henna Ceremony.In this function  the females members of the family decorate the bride’s hand & feet with heena.After that Kab-el-Kitab is also the marriage contract & a official marriage event & celebration.It starts with Imam who give small speech about about how the Prophet honored his wives & how women should treat their husband.It is more official actually because its infront of God (Allah) Two witnesses, sign their names to the marriage contract, and the couple is now officially married. The wedding is followed by celebration where music and dance dominate. food is served to the guest.
After this,grand function held known as Walima or Valima (Arabic: وليمة‎ walīmah), The walima is performed after the nikah, (Arabic: نكاح‎) or marriage ceremony. The word walima is from aw lam, meaning to gather.some times people spend more amount of money but the idea is that to feed people with simplicity & a quality of food. Actually walima is a sunnah & it shows that a new life or a couple’s marital life has started.In this function all relatives from Groom & Bride family invited,A lavish feast offered to all guest & thats how Arabic Marriages are celebrated  in Arab world.

Author:
Jia Ahmad

Friday, 11 May 2012

Find your life partner

SIKH MARRIAGES

Anand Karaj is actually a prescribed form of Sikh Marriages.The Sikh Marriages are
specially of two individuals in which they are in relationship of equal partnership.

In Sikh Marriages the girl & boy choose each other & after that they approve each other
than they seek their parents for blessing.

In Rehat maryada strictly forbids all types of arrangements in marriages,because
they donot viewed marriage as business transaction.Sikh also discourage consulting
horoscope.

Kurmai is known as engagement ceremony is not necessary in sikh marriages but its some times performed.Mostly held in gurdwara.

Kirtan is also a event in sikh marriages mostly held in gurdwara or at home of boy,Brides family come to boy house for short time.The groom is presented himwith Indian sweets.

In east marriages of sikh,Sikh marriages are typically a three days function in which firstly mehndi n sangeet event come & celebrated with fun & frolic.Groom & his family spend the night at bride house.Ceremoney takes place in local Gurdwara.  In Sikh Marriages the bride usually wear heavily embroidered shalwaar kameez or lehga.The grrom also dressed in Long coat & churidaar pajama & pink . In sikh marriages the bride leaves her house to start a new journey, She throws wheat grains over the shoulders .The day after the wedding couple go usually to bride’s home  & Bride family give them present & a lavish feast.  MARRIED LIFE IS BETTER THAN  SINGLE MAN/WOMAN
Married Life is better than a single man/woman because basically marriage is a link  between two people & these two peoples are companions.  Married life is better than single man/woman because married individuals have physical health & also they don’t have any psychological disorder.  Married life is better than single man/woman because they experience no depression & other related diseases.  Married life is better than single man/woman because married peoples earn more  money because they know they have the family, that’s why they work hard for their  loved one.But if we compare with singles they earn less money because they know that  no one there who want something from him. Married life is better than single man/woman because we get married for many reasons to share our triumphs, our failures, and our lives with someone else & most importantly to live happily.
According to a clinical research being married improves your health,financial status.

GET MARRIED & LIVE HAPPILY……

MARRIED LIFE IS BETTER THAN
SINGLE MAN/WOMAN

Married Life is better than a single man/woman because basically marriage is a link between two people & these two peoples are companions. Married life is better than single man ,  woman because married individuals have physical  health & also they don’t have any psychological disorder. Married life is better than single man / woman because they experience no depression & other related diseases.

Married life is better than single man/woman because married peoples earn more  money because they know they have the family, that’s why they work hard for their loved one.But if we compare with singles they earn less money because they know that no one there who want something from him.

Married life is better than single man/woman because we get married for many reasons to share our triumphs, our failures, and our lives with someone else & most importantly  to live happily.

According to a clinical research being married improvres your health,financial status.

GET MARRIED & LIVE HAPPILY……

Its Strange that second shaadi is also very strong tag and people are searching their second life partner on internet anxiously, its also worth noting that people those are interested in second marriage are comparatively wealthy and rich, compared to other single unmarried bridegroom, the profiles with second marriage are increasing in number and giving good amount as fees to personal matchmakers. 

Bride9.com launched with a clear vision to provide matchmaking services to paksitani and Indians living in SA or UK. People are still confue in matrimonial sites and personal matchmaking sites and most of the times they did not get proper answer which lead to their wrong choice of life partner and ultimate failure of their marriage life. its also true that marriage is not a bed of roses one has to compromise to make his / her marriage life successful. Personal mnatchmaker is more than a shaadi site where you first create your account and then login to shaadi site and start you search, no body is their to guide you , no body is theri to tell you that whether you are doing it good or bad. The success of your serach ultimate depends on your knowlegde about key words and other tools those are not easy for every one.  Mrs Ahmed who is well known and among the best matchmaker in India and Pakistan, she keep posting proposals on twitter for the betterment of Muslims and Hindus. She receive almost 100 profiles daily from boys and girls of respecatble and rich familes. Women are still reluctant to fill online marriage form, I want to clear one thing from this platform that as they fill an online marriage form that comes straight into my e-mail box and no body can view it except me. After reviewing that online form which a candidate has filled free of cost , Mrs ahmed sent a personal e-mail to that bride or groom living in UK or Dubai, stating clear amount of fees which is 100 US $. and then the whole story begins few replies are recived from people that you are charging less and some say that you are charging more, actually no body is willing to pay after marriage, I was watching a well known matchmaker Mr Merchant who did work for almost 17 years in Dubai and presently living in Norway, he clearly stated in his interview to ARY digital that 80% people do not pay single penny after marriage, he added that people invite every one in their shaadi except him, and I completely agee with him, what I mean to say that he is right to charge some amount at the start or before starting matchmakibng for that bridegroom. personal matchmaker is wasting his/ her time on net and searching for your life partner day and night to solve your problem.  


A Bengali Matrimony is not as hard to find as to get a good Bengali matchmaker who does not only speak Bengali but also has 100's of Bengali bridegroom profiles, roughly more than 60000 Bengali are searching their life partner not only in Bangladesh but across World. Bride9.com is one of those few Bengali site where you can easily find Bengali bride or girl for Marriage.


As we all know that a very famous sentence written on every card of Pakistani Marriages that ‘’Marriages are decided in heaven & celebrated on Earth”. Pakistan is a Muslim country & as a Muslim we highlight our Religion in every aspect of our lives.
Pakistani Marriages are not an event only basically it’s a bond between husband & wife & also with their family.
Pakistani Marriages are considered as a event of happiness, joy & where all family members meet & take part in different function of this joyful event.
In Pakistani Marriages, First of all Groom family approves a girl and after that a function which is known as Engagement Ceremony held & all close relatives are invited for Dua e Khair for both groom & Bride.
After that a series of functions are organized which include Mayoon,Mehndi,Baraat & Walima.
In Pakistani Marriages Mayoon & Mehndi are called the functions for girls & boys in which they dance on medlays.In Mayoon function the married ladies which is also known as (Suhagans) apply ubtan on bride for flawless skin & young girls sing old  mehndi songs.
In Mehndi function,a competition of songs is organize between Groom & Bride Family,after that young generation do dance & luddi,Mostly young girls wear yellow shirt with green choridaar pajama. Some girls also wear lehnga & gharara .Mostly boys wear shalwar kameez in mehndi.
After this function the most awaited day arrived called Wedding day in which bride go parlour & wear red lehnga or gharara,Nikkah function is also mostly held on this day.Dates are also offered to the guests.Salaami is also awarded to Bride & Groom in Pakistani Marriages.Now the Bride is actually the property of Groom & her departure is held under Holy Quran known as Rukhsati.
The last function is Walima which is from Groom side for bride family,A lavish lunch or dinner is offered from Groom side.Basically the Nikkah & Walima are the sunnah our Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (SAWW).



Matchmaker , свацця , صانع عيدان الثقاب ,

Matchmaker , свацця , صانع عيدان الثقاب ,

صانع عيدان الثقاب


تطابق صانع هو الشخص الذي فعل أو الانخراط في making.Now المباراة بعد أيام مباراة 
صانع القيام بأعمال المهنة وذلك لماذا دورها وأهمية صانع المباراة / 
مباراة جعل الزيادات يوما بعد يوم. الآن أهمية أيام من المباراة صانع تنمو بسرعة جدا أساسا لديهم واسعة المعرفة والخبرة بحيث يحاول ترتيب الزيجات من خلال تقديم 2 الأزواج. ومهنية تماما أهمية المباراة صانع في بعض cultures.Basically في بعض العائلات حيث ترتيب الزيجات حكمهم، فإنها عادة ما يتشاور المباراة صانع لل مساعدتهم في اختيار الزوج. بعض الفردي تشاور أيضا منهم للعثور على الزوج وفقا لطلبهم حتى نقدم للزوجين وتكون بمثابة جسر بين زوجين. أهمية صانع المباراة في مجتمعنا تنمو بسرعة لأن الآن أيام، والشعوب القيام به الاحتيال في علاقة أيضا، لماذا الآن أن أيام أن تتشاور مباراة صانع لأن لديهم جميع البيانات والمعلومات الحيوية الأخرى ذات الصلة حول الفردي. أهمية المباراة صانع لعب دور حيوي في مجتمعنا لأنهم هم الناس الذين يساعدون الشعوب من خلال مهاراتهم للمساعدة في الفردي للعثور على حبهم وحياتهم أيضا شريك. '' لذا تجد الحب الخاص بك عن طريق صانع ماتش "


Pas outeur is 'n persoon wat te doen of betrokke raak in 'n wedstryd making.Now 'n dag pas 
maker die werk te doen 'n beroep en dat die rede waarom hulle rol en belang van die wedstryd maker / 
pas maak verhogings van dag tot dag 'n dae belangrikheid van die wedstryd maker baie vinnig te groei. hulle het basies die uitgebreide kennis en ervaring, sodat hulle probeer om die huwelike te reël by die bekendstelling van twee paartjies. Die belangrikheid van die wedstryd maker is baie geprofessionaliseerd in n cultures.Basically in sommige families waar reël huwelike is hulle reël, raadpleeg hulle gewoonlik die wedstryd maker hulle help om die lewensmaat te kies. Sommige singles ook raadpleeg om hulle te vind die gade wat volgens hulle die vraag sodat hulle stel die egpaar en daad as brug tussen 'n paartjie. Die belangrikheid van die wedstryd maker in ons samelewing groei vinnig want nou 'n dae, mense doen bedrog in 'n verhouding ook, dat die rede waarom deesdae hulle raadpleeg pas maker, want hulle het al die bio data en ander verwante inligting oor die enkelspel. Die belangrikheid van die wedstryd maker belangrike rol speel in ons samelewing, want hulle is die mense wat mense help om hul vaardighede singles te help om hul liefde en ook hul lewe vennoot te vind '' Vind jou liefde deur Match Maker "



свацця



Матч вытворца гэта чалавек, які робіць ці ўдзельнічаць у матчы making.Now дзён адпавядаць
вытворца робіць працу прафесіі і што таму іх ролю і важнасць матчу вытворца /
адпаведнасці рашэнняў расце з кожным днём. Цяпер дні Важнасць матчу вытворца растуць вельмі хутка у асноўным яны маюць вялізныя веды і вопыт, каб яны спрабуюць наладзіць шлюбы прадставіла дзве пары. важнасць матчу вытворца цалкам прафесійнымі ў некаторых cultures.Basically ў некаторых сем'ях, дзе зладзіць шлюбы сваіх правіла, яны звяртаюцца звычайна ў матчы з вытворцам дапамагчы ім у выбары жонка. Некаторыя сінглы і кансультавацца з імі, каб знайсці мужа па іх патрабаванню, каб яны ўвесці пару і выступаць у якасці моста паміж парай. важнасць матчу вытворца ў нашым грамадстве імкліва расце, таму што цяпер дні, народаў рабіць махлярства ў адносінах таксама, што, чаму цяпер дні яны кансультуюцца адпаведнасці стваральнік, таму што ў іх ёсць усе дадзеныя бія і іншай адпаведнай інфармацыі аб сінглаў. важнасць матчу вытворца адыгрываць важную ролю ў нашым грамадстве, таму што гэта людзі, якія дапамагаюць народам свае навыкі дапамагчы сінглаў знайсці сваю любоў і сваё жыццё і партнёраў. '' Так Знайсці любоў матчу Maker "




Kupplerin


Match Maker ist eine Person, zu tun oder sich in Übereinstimmung making.Now ein Tag entsprechen 
Maker tun, einen Beruf zu arbeiten und dass deshalb ihre Rolle und Bedeutung der Match Maker / 
Match-Making steigt von Tag zu Tag. Nun wird ein Tag von Bedeutung Match Maker sehr schnell wachsen im Grunde haben sie die große Wissen und Erfahrung, so dass sie die durch Einführung von zwei Ehen arrangieren versucht Paare. Die Bedeutung der Match Maker ist ganz in irgendeiner cultures.Basically in professionalisiert einigen Familien, in denen arrangieren Ehen sind ihre Herrschaft, wenden sie in der Regel das Match Maker ihnen helfen, den Ehepartner zu wählen.Einige Singles auch konsultieren sie zu finden, der Ehegatte nach ihrer Nachfrage, so dass sie das Paar und fungieren als Brücke zwischen einem Paar vorstellen. Die Bedeutung der Match Maker in unserer Gesellschaft wächst rasant, weil jetzt ein Tag, den Völkern zu tun Betrügereien im Zusammenhang auch, dass jetzt, warum sie konsultieren Tag entsprechen maker, weil sie alle Daten bio & andere damit zusammenhängende Informationen über die Singles haben. Die Bedeutung der Match Maker spielen eine lebenswichtige Rolle in unserer Gesellschaft sind, weil sie die Menschen, die Völker von ihren Fähigkeiten helfen, Singles zu helfen, ihre Liebe und auch ihr Leben zu finden Partner. '' So finden Sie Ihre Liebe von Match Maker "



casamenteiro


Casamenteiro é unha persoa que está facendo ou se involucrar en making.Now xogo uns días corresponder
fabricante facendo o traballo dunha profesión e que por iso o seu papel e importancia da fabricante de partida /
facendo corresponder día aumenta ao día. Agora, un día Importancia da fabricante de xogo medrar moi rápido Basicamente, eles teñen o gran coñecemento e experiencia para que intenta organizar as vodas a través da introdución de dous parellas. A importancia da fabricante de partida é bastante profissionalizado nalgúns cultures.Basically en algunhas familias, onde organizan vodas son o seu dominio, eles consultan xeralmente o xogo fabricante de axudalos a elixir o cónxuxe. Algúns singles tamén consultala-los a atopar o cónxuxe de acordo coa súa demanda para que seintroducen a parella e actúan como ponte entre unha parella. A importancia da fabricante de partida na nosa sociedade a crecer rapidamente, xa que hoxe en día, os pobos do fraude na relación, tamén, por iso que hoxe en día eles consultan corresponder fabricante porque teñen todos os datos biolóxicos e outras informacións relacionadas cos singles. A importancia da fabricante de partida xogan un papel fundamental na nosa sociedade, porque son as persoas que axudan pobos polos seus coñecementos para axudar os solteiros a atopar o seu amor e tamén a súa vida socio. '' Entón Atope o seu amor por Match Maker "






marieur


Match spécial est une personne qui fait ou de s'engager dans making.Now match de quelques jours correspondent 
fabricant de faire travailler une profession et ce pour cela que leur rôle et importance de Match Maker / 
match making jour augmente par jour. maintenant une importance jours de Match Maker croître très rapidement fondamentalement, ils ont la majorité des connaissances et l'expérience afin qu'ils essaie d'arranger les mariages en introduisant deux couples. L'importance de Match Maker est assez professionnalisé dans certains cultures.Basically dans certaines familles où arranger des mariages sont leur règle, ils consultent habituellement le match maker à les aider à choisir le conjoint. Certains célibataires aussi les consulter pour trouver le conjoint en fonction de leur demande, de sorte qu'ils introduisent le couple et acte comme un pont entre un couple. L'importance de Match Maker dans notre société de plus en plus rapidement, parce que maintenant un jours, les peuples ne fraudes en relation aussi, c'est pourquoi maintenant des jours qu'ils consultent correspondre fabricant parce qu'ils ont toutes les données bio et d'autres renseignements connexes sur les singles. L'importance de Match Maker jouent un rôle vital dans notre société parce qu'ils sont les gens qui aident les peuples par leurs compétences pour aider des célibataires à trouver leur amour et leur vie aussi partenaire. '' Alors Trouvez votre amour par Match Maker "

Sikh Marriages

SIKH MARRIAGES

Anand Karaj is actually a prescribed form of Sikh Marriages.The Sikh Marriages are
specially of two individuals in which they are in relationship of equal partnership.

In Sikh Marriages the girl & boy choose each other & after that they approve each other
than they seek their parents for blessing.

In Rehat maryada strictly forbids all types of arrangements in marriages,because
they donot viewed marriage as business transaction.Sikh also discourage consulting
horoscope.

Kurmai is known as engagement ceremony is not necessary in sikh marriages but its
some times performed.Mostly held in gurdwara.

Kirtan is also a event in sikh marriages mostly held in gurdwara or at home of
boy,Brides family come to boy house for short time.The groom is presented himwith
Indian sweets.

In east marriages of sikh,Sikh marriages are typically a three days function in which
firstly mehndi n sangeet event come & celebrated with fun & frolic.Groom & his family
spend the night at bride house.Ceremoney takes place in local Gurdwara.

In Sikh Marriages the bride usually wear heavily embroidered shalwaar kameez or
lehga.The grrom also dressed in Long coat & churidaar pajama & pink .

In sikh marriages the bride leaves her house to start a new journey,She throws wheat
grains over the shoulders .The day after the wedding couple go usually to bride’s home
& Bride family give them present & a lavish feast.

Start Married Life with Single women

MARRIED LIFE IS BETTER THAN
SINGLE MAN/WOMAN

Married Life is better than a single man/woman because basically marriage is a link
between two people & these two peoples are companions.

Married life is better than single man/woman because married individuals have physical
health & also they don’t have any psychological disorder.

Married life is better than single man/woman because they experience no depression &
other related diseases.

Married life is better than single man/woman because married peoples earn more
money because they know they have the family, that’s why they work hard for their
loved one.But if we compare with singles they earn less money because they know that
no one there who want something from him.

Married life is better than single man/woman because we get married for many reasons
to share our triumphs, our failures, and our lives with someone else & most importantly
to live happily.

According to a clinical research being married improvres your health,financial status.

GET MARRIED & LIVE HAPPILY……

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arabic, indian, pakistani, muslim, hindu, sikh, brides, groom, marriage, shaadi, women,: Importance of Shaadi in life

Thursday, 10 May 2012

Importance of Shaadi in life

Shaadi is actually a legal & religious contract between two peoples that they start a new life  as a husband & wife like one soul. The Creator of the Universe – Allah - has stated in the Quran:
                     ‘And wed the single among you’.(C24 : V32)
Just read above verse the Almighty Allah ordered us to marry.Shaadi is like to tie two
people of opposite gender in a relationship known as Nikkah.Shaadi is also declared as one half of one’s faith that’s why  The Prophet Muhammad 
‘A person who possesses the means to marry (i.e. he is able to work etc. to support a wife and children) and does not marry then he is not from amongst us (i.e. the believers).’
Some people have more than one life partner and is commonly known as Polygamy.If the man doesnot have those materials which can satisfy his wife than this means, he is not be eligible to have more than one wife. The basic objective of Shaadi according to Islam is healthy marital life that must be because of true love between husband & wife.
There are many advantages of Shaadi,By getting married you get a friend whom you can share everything,The one who take extra care of you,who love you.
The creator of this universe ordered us to get married,that means Shaadi has advantages for the human being.

According to Tom Mullen:


“Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry”


hindu marriages and Mangal sooter

In Hindu Marriages basically they give the rights or authority to Groom & Bride to start their live with each other.First of all Groom family approve a girl & the function known as engagement or Mangni is held in which Groom family give Jewelry  & clothes to bride.
After that in Hindu Marriages they calculate the best time & date for wedding also known as Shub Muhhrat & than a series of function start.
Grooms wear mostly dhoti & shirt.Hindu Brides mostly wear Saari with heavy jewelry.Her hair is usually covered in a bun & with a crown over it showing that she is a queen of his Groom.
In Hindu Marriages garlands are exchange between groom & bride which shows that they accept each other from the core of their heart. After that in Hindu Marriages yogurt and honey is offered by bride’s father to Groom to show respect.
In Hindu Marriages an event known as kanyadan is held after offering honey & yogurt.In kanyadan bride’s father put bride’s hand in groom’s hand to accept her as her life partner.
After that in Hindu marriages the couple invokes fire and show commitment in front of this fire known as God of fire. Groom & Bride put rice in this fire as a sacrifice.After that scarves are tied around Groom & bride to show that they are one soul & reflecting Love.
In Hindu Marriages they also walk around the fire which is known as Pheras which reflects that they are going to start their new life just like we say
“A New Life A New We”.

Groom put red powder in brides forehead known as sindhoor & parents bless them.
A neckless which is also known as Mangal sooter is tied around the neck of bride which shows that now she is married.
That’s how Hindu Marriages are celebrated on earth.


Pakistani Marriages are blessings for youth


As we all know that a very famous sentence written on every card of Pakistani Marriages that ‘’Marriages are decided in heaven & celebrated on Earth”. Pakistan is a Muslim country & as a Muslim we highlight our Religion in every aspect of our lives.
Pakistani Marriages are not an event only basically it’s a bond between husband & wife & also with their family.
Pakistani Marriages are considered as a event of happiness, joy & where all family members meet & take part in different function of this joyful event.
In Pakistani Marriages, First of all Groom family approves a girl and after that a function which is known as Engagement Ceremony held & all close relatives are invited for Dua e Khair for both groom & Bride.
After that a series of functions are organized which include Mayoon,Mehndi,Baraat & Walima.
In Pakistani Marriages Mayoon & Mehndi are called the functions for girls & boys in which they dance on medlays.In Mayoon function the married ladies which is also known as (Suhagans) apply ubtan on bride for flawless skin & young girls sing old  mehndi songs.
In Mehndi function,a competition of songs is organize between Groom & Bride Family,after that young generation do dance & luddi,Mostly young girls wear yellow shirt with green choridaar pajama. Some girls also wear lehnga & gharara .Mostly boys wear shalwar kameez in mehndi.
After this function the most awaited day arrived called Wedding day in which bride go parlour & wear red lehnga or gharara,Nikkah function is also mostly held on this day.Dates are also offered to the guests.Salaami is also awarded to Bride & Groom in Pakistani Marriages.Now the Bride is actually the property of Groom & her departure is held under Holy Quran known as Rukhsati.
The last function is Walima which is from Groom side for bride family,A lavish lunch or dinner is offered from Groom side.Basically the Nikkah & Walima are the sunnah our Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (SAWW).



Wednesday, 9 May 2012

believe me, personal matchmaker is better than marriage websites

Bride9.com launched with a clear vision to provide matchmaking services to paksitani and Indians living in USA or UK. People are still confue in matrimonial sites and personal matchmaking sites and most of the times they did not get proper answer which lead to their wrong choice of life partner and ultimate failure of their marriage life. its also true that marriage is not a bed of roses one has to compromise to make his / her marriage life successful. Personal mnatchmaker is more than a shaadi site where you first create your account and then login to shaadi site and start you search, no body is their to guide you , no body is theri to tell you that whether you are doing it good or bad. The success of your serach ultimate depends on your knowlegde about key words and other tools those are not easy for every one.  Mrs Ahmed who is well known and among the best matchmaker in India and Pakistan, she keep posting proposals on twitter for the betterment of Muslims and Hindus. She receive almost 100 profiles daily from boys and girls of respecatble and rich familes. Women are still reluctant to fill online marriage form, I want to clear one thing from this platform that as they fill an online marriage form that comes straight into my e-mail box and no body can view it except me. After reviewing that online form which a candidate has filled free of cost , Mrs ahmed sent a personal e-mail to that bride or groom living in UK or Dubai, stating clear amount of fees which is 100 US $. and then the whole story begins few replies are recived from people that you are charging less and some say that you are charging more, actually no body is willing to pay after marriage, I was watching a well known matchmaker Mr Merchant who did work for almost 17 years in Dubai and presently living in Norway, he clearly stated in his interview to ARY digital that 80% people do not pay single penny after marriage, he added that people invite every one in their shaadi except him, and I completely agee with him, what I mean to say that he is right to charge some amount at the start or before starting matchmakibng for that bridegroom. personal matchmaker is wasting his/ her time on net and searching for your life partner day and night to solve your problem.  




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